Are You a Victim?

Are You a Victim?

Ask Yourself These Questions!

  • You feel held captive by your circumstances.
  • You feel you lack any control over your present circumstances.
  • You don’t listen when others tell you, directly or indirectly, that they think you could have done more to achieve better results.
  • You find yourself blaming others and pointing fingers.
  • Your discussions of problems focus on what you cannot do, rather than on what you can do.
  • You fail to confront the toughest issues you face.
  • You find yourself being sought out by others so they can tell you what someone else did to them this time.
  • You resist asking probing questions about your own accountability.
  • You feel you are being treated unfairly and you don’t think you can do anything about it.
  • You repeatedly find yourself in a defensive posture.
  • You spend a lot of time talking about things you cannot change (e.g., your boss, shareholders, the economy’s performance, and government regulations).
  • You site confusion as a reason for not taking action.
  • You avoid the people, the meetings, and the situations that require you to report on your responsibilities.
  • You find yourself saying:
    1. “It’s not my job.”
    2. “There’s nothing I can do about it.”
    3. “All we can do is wait and see.”
    4. “Just tell me what you want me to do.”
    5. “If it were me, I’d do it differently.”
  • You frequently waste time and energy “Boss” or “colleague bashing.”
  • You spend valuable time crafting a compelling story detailing why you were not at fault.”
  • You repeatedly tell the same old story about how someone took advantage of you.
  • You view the world with a pessimistic attitude.”

So, are YOU Ready to Stop Being a Victim?

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Set Your time and date for Your complimentary session with the Coach!!

Do It Right Now!!

Earth Wind Fire Water Training and Development

Dick Powell    727-422-1833

Dick@EWFW.org

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